I’ve done something just for me. I didn’t wait until I’d lost the weight or I found the perfect companion. It’s even better than the motorcycle class (coming up in just a few more weeks!!!!) and the membership to the YWCA (that I’m actually using!!!) but both of those will totally come in handy for this new thing.
That’s all I can really say about it for right now. It’s a deferred gratification thing. Something where whenever I’m tempted to blow $20 on yarn or lunch out (or SHOES) I’ll be able to say “Wait, NFH! Put that money in The Fund!”
(One more clue: it doesn’t “require” insurance but it’s a smart thing to do.)